Desarrolle hace muchos anos la lista que sigue. La hice en ingles para reducir la exposicion. Si supiera chino, la habria escrito en ese idioma. Le sigo haciendo agregados a medida que se me ocurren. No tiene por objeto ser mas eficiente sino reducir los conflictos innecesarios!!!!!
UPSETTING BEHAVIORS TO BE AVOIDED
(DoNotDoList.doc)
1. DO NOT INSULT OR BLAME AT ALL.
2. Do not criticize others mistakes or actions.
3. Do not blame or insult friends, maids, relatives, pets or anybody else.
4. Do not complain about anything. Just keep complaints for yourself.
5. Do not fart in front or near other people and when farting, make sure nobody
is around for a while. Watch out about bad smelling left in the toilette.
6. Do not complain if somebody takes or moves your belonging from the assigned
or regular place.
7. Do not make vain comments or talk about yourself unless asked for.
8. Do not show up your bad mood or sadness. Leave it for yourself.
9. Do not complain about meals, being hungry or thirsty
10. Do not complain about lack of punctuality, having to wait or if she is late.
11. Do not get into the toilette when she is in.
12. Do not look for intimacy unless she asks for.
13. Do not say dirty words.
14. Do not argue, give opinions or make comments about anything unless asked
for.
15. Do not express your feelings or thoughts about the male-female differences,
capabilities, skills, etc. Keep them for yourself.
16. Do not provoque unnecessary argues or be jealous.
17. Do not complain about use of the cell phone, computer or any other activities
that does not include me.
18. Remember any comment could be taken personally by the listener if not taken
in the proper context, even if not addressed to him.
19. Be careful about how to express yourself, how to speak and how to react to
unpleasant situations or comments (either political, religious, sports, jobs,
vain, etc.)
20. When filling unable to follow this check list, leave the site, conversation or
issue for the toilette, or any other place where you can relax and forget.
21. Do not make personal jokes.
22. Do not shout or talk in loud voice to her.
23. Do not shout or talk in loud voice over the phone.
24. Do not behave agressively when driving or biking.
25. Do not do zapping when she is in.
26. Never say “No” to her proposals. Let her face the facts and then decide.
27. Never, ever, tell her “shisco, shisco”
28. Never, ever talk to her of any of her same genetic, family members for whatever reason.
29. Never, ever say that something is a “pelotudez” when she is around.